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By Mary Ellen Heathcote
With today’s fast paced work environment and the seemingly endless
demands on our time and the related stress created, how can you ever expect
to find balance?
Does the image of a juggler come to mind when you think about
balancing your life these days? So, how do you think you are doing?
- Do you look forward to
your work day?
- Do you have an interesting
and exciting life away from work?
- Do you put a priority
on family time?
- Do you spend time with
friends each week?
- Do you have fun?
If you could not answer
yes to these questions, then perhaps some improvement is needed.
To achieve balance involves
recognizing where you need to spend your time to meet your responsibilities.
You should consider the four major categories of your life that need to be kept
in balance:
- Family and relationships
- Financial and work
- Physical and health
- Spiritual
Emphasis on all of these
areas is necessary to have a fully satisfying life.
The ability to balance and
combine these areas will contribute greatly to the quality of life you enjoy.
Too much emphasis on either one can affect the others adversely. Learning to
live in balance, allowing time for both work and a rewarding personal life can
bring synergy, enthusiasm and creativity into your life.
Of course, your first thought
is “not enough time” to fit everything in and you start rationalizing as to
why something has to be dropped or neglected. To have real balance in your life,
you need to plan and practice.
Consider drawing up a 30-day
plan for each of the areas of your life. Decide how much time you can realistically
dedicate to each area and then write down what activity you will do in that
time block.
Your plan could be as simple
as making sure that you do one thing in each area everyday. It does not need
to be something big to be important. But a plan is only as good as your follow-through.
So do it! Consider this your 30-day trial at life balancing.
And remember. It has been
widely proven that financially and emotionally stable individuals have more
harmonious relationships and have achieved a good balance. Make this your New
Year’s goal.
(Heathcote, a REALTOR®
with Coldwell Banker HP&W Builder Services, is an RRAR member.) 
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